“When a marriage proposal came through my aunt, my father wanted to marry me off. I leveraged my understanding to convey the child marriage risks to my parents. I emphasised my desire for the continuation of education and financial independence. My parents were impressed by my determination and explanations. Later, they supported my decision and called off the marriage,” said Ayesha.
Ayesha*, a 15-year-old girl, lives in a small flood-prone village in Sirajganj. She comes from a family of eight, including her parents, three sisters, and elderly grandparents. They live in a three-room house made of brick walls and a corrugated iron sheet roof. Her father, Karim, is the sole breadwinner and struggles to bear the family's financial responsibilities, including education for Ayesha and her sisters, healthcare for their elderly grandparents, and meeting daily needs.
The Empowering Women And Girls team of Shidhulai Swanirvar Sangstha visited their village to select the skills trainees. Ayesha's parents supported her decision to join the tailoring group. Over 16 weeks, she completed 48 classes of two hours each, learning to create various garments for women and children. Ayesha said, “I purchased a sewing machine with some borrowed funds and savings. I am studying in ninth grade now; at the same time, I am making clothes for my family and others, earning over 6,000 Taka per month. It has significantly contributed to my family's income.”
In addition to the new skills, Ayesha received training on gender equality, healthcare, and financial literacy. This expanded her knowledge, and she began to advocate for herself and others at risk of early marriage. “When a marriage proposal came through my aunt, my father wanted to marry me off. I leveraged my understanding to convey the child marriage risks to my parents. I emphasised my desire for the continuation of education and financial independence. My parents were impressed by my determination and explanations. Later, they supported my decision and called off the marriage,” said Ayesha.
Ayesha's transformative journey has not only improved her skills and income but also empowered her to speak up and make critical decisions in her life. She has become a role model in her community, demonstrating the positive impact of education and new skills, determination, and awareness of rights. Ayesha said, “I attend the monthly group meetings and encourage women to send their girls to school. Also, we try to stop child marriage in the community.”
Fuljan trained Ayesha in sewing. The skills trainer said, “I am proud of Ayesha's achievements. Her ability to contribute to the family's livelihoods while pursuing education and advocating for girls’ rights reflects the power of our resilience.”
Ayesha's story reminds us of the potential within every girl who is given the right opportunities and support.
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